ridge:

where is the lie though

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ewurajaja:

Recorded on Jay-Z’s iPhone. No amped mic, no reverb. JUST Bey.

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She sang that song. Will reblog this every time

I sure will Bey anytime

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musaafer:

Stupidest thing ever is this infantilization of patriarchy like, “it’s boys who do those things; a ~~real man~~~ would never be that way” no listen to me, it is not little boys who crack jokes that make up patriarchy but actual grown-ass men engaging in actual physical, systematic, structural, emotional, verbal violence against women. Patriarchy is not puberty you grow out of but a backdrop wired into the fabric of our society. 

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- head cold
- period
- hayfever

I took my clarityn tablet though, and my throat feels a lot better because laura fixed me up some hot water with honey and lemon and whiskey, only I hate honey and 99.9% of all alcohol in the world, so it’s an achievement that I only gagged twice. everything’s shot to my sinuses now, and I’ve tried to blow my nose so many times that it’s literally burning and I saw some blood the last few times. also, sporadic coughing fits. and I can’t smell or taste anything. and cramps.

but I feel happy and I love everyone and I’m gonna be better soon. it’s just nice having a tangible reason to lay in bed feeling sorry for myself.

honeysloughs:

oiltipped:

I’ve looked at every relationship I’ve ever witnessed where a friend of mine was 16 - 21 and defended a guy she was with who was 27+, and not once have those guys not been exploitative. I’m not saying it can never work safely (when the younger person is on the older end of the spectrum, at least),…

When I was 16 I remember one of my friends getting asked out by this 25 year old dude and she was so happy and flattered but our other mate was like ‘for you it’s an ego boost that he likes you but you’ve got to ask yourself why this grown man wants to date a schoolgirl’ and yeah it stuck with me

exactly!

it’s so easy to see the appeal when you’re looking at it from the perspective of the younger person, but it’s so unnerving when you invert it. and there’s something kinda funny - by which I mean sad and discomforting, really - about the fact it’s totally normalised for girls to go for older guys in an effort to match up (what they believe is) maturity. but we don’t ever say to them, “You think he’s great for you because you think you deserve someone older, but when you get him, hasn’t he consciously chosen someone significantly younger? Isn’t he making the exact same choice you want to dismiss in boys your own age, and a choice you wouldn’t make yourself?”

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I’ve looked at every relationship I’ve ever witnessed where a friend of mine was 16 - 21 and defended a guy she was with who was 27+, and not once have those guys not been exploitative. I’m not saying it can never work safely (when the younger person is on the older end of the spectrum, at least), but I definitely think - I think the potential for those relationships to happen in the first place is there because we teach young girls to view loneliness as a marker of being unlike other girls in relationships and in turn a sign of emotional maturity, and they believe that significantly older men are their only worthy matches, when the ones who would perpetuate that belief by pursuing a relationship with them aren’t actually that trustworthy at all. that’s the potential, but it happens because those guys say yes. and I just remember being younger and never around guys my own age, so the only ones I was attracted to were older, usually typical celebrity crushes. and I was always so adamant that huge age gaps weren’t a big deal when the youngest person was younger than say, twenty-three, but then I heard someone ask, “What would you feel if you were thirty-five and you found out your thirty-five year old ex-boyfriend was going out with an eighteen year old?” and I just remember that hitting so hard. I’ve never been able to shake that feeling, realisation, whatever, since. which is good. I don’t think I want to.

[packs suitcase for uni with head turned away]

[fears with every fibre of being that my germs will contaminate suitcase contents]

itwillnotprotectyou:

oiltipped:

honeysloughs:

fluffyfemme:

itwillnotprotectyou:

do any of you know of any films about mixed race lesbians?

Can anyone help kinks?

not a film but the fosters has a mixed race lesbian lead

there’s The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love, When Night is Falling, I Can’t Think Straight, and Nina’s Heavenly Delights?

not mixed race as in interracial. mixed race as in having parents of different races

damn I need to start reading things correctly. sorry!

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honeysloughs:

fluffyfemme:

itwillnotprotectyou:

do any of you know of any films about mixed race lesbians?

Can anyone help kinks?

not a film but the fosters has a mixed race lesbian lead

there’s The Incredibly True Adventure of Two Girls in Love, When Night is Falling, I Can’t Think Straight, and Nina’s Heavenly Delights?

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Vit C and lots of sleep! It’ll help. Hope you get well soon!
aw man get well soon bub <3 tea, honey, warm water - do everything. lots of fluids and rest okay? <3

aww, you guys are such sweethearts. I’ll be following your advice, thank-you!

xx